Marriage is a deep bond — emotional, spiritual, and sacred. For many people in same-sex relationships, especially men who love men, questions often arise: Is my relationship seen? Am I accepted? Can I find peace in faith?
The Bible has long been a source of guidance, and while traditional interpretations often lean toward heterosexual unions, many people today are re-examining Scripture with open hearts. This blog doesn’t aim to preach but to provide thoughtful reflection.
These Bible verses, while not always directly about marriage between man and man, offer powerful insights on love, faithfulness, companionship, and covenant — the very foundation of any marriage.
Let’s explore 35 verses together, each followed by a short explanation to help uncover the spiritual message it holds for those seeking affirmation and guidance.
1. Genesis 2:18
“The Lord God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.’”
Explanation:
This verse reminds us that humans were not meant to be alone. While traditionally interpreted about Adam and Eve, the core message is companionship. Everyone deserves love and a partner who supports them.
2. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.”
Explanation:
The value of partnership and mutual support applies to all relationships. Love between two men can be just as strengthening and uplifting as any other bond.
3. 1 Samuel 18:1
“After David had finished talking with Saul, Jonathan became one in spirit with David, and he loved him as himself.”
Explanation:
David and Jonathan shared a deep emotional and spiritual connection. Their love has often been discussed as a model of intimate, loyal friendship — and possibly more.
4. Ruth 1:16
“Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God.”
Explanation:
Though Ruth speaks to Naomi, the verse shows unbreakable devotion — a core value in all lasting relationships, regardless of gender.
5. John 13:34
“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.”
Explanation:
Jesus calls us to love without restriction. Love between two men is valid when it reflects Christ’s unconditional love.
6. Romans 13:10
“Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.”
Explanation:
Love that is kind and genuine — regardless of who it’s between — aligns with God’s law.
7. Galatians 5:14
“For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”
Explanation:
Love, not legalism, is what God prioritizes. This includes loving relationships between same-sex partners.
8. 1 John 4:7
“Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.”
Explanation:
True love reflects God’s nature. Two men who love each other are part of that divine reflection.
9. 1 John 4:18
“There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment.”
Explanation:
Loving relationships should bring peace, not fear. God’s love is not about punishment but about embracing who we are.
10. Matthew 7:12
“So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.”
Explanation:
Treating others with fairness and love includes respecting same-sex relationships and the people in them.
11. Proverbs 17:17
“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.”
Explanation:
Strong emotional bonds between men can be deep, enduring, and God-honoring.
12. Mark 12:31
“Love your neighbor as yourself. There is no commandment greater than these.”
Explanation:
Love is central to faith. It isn’t confined by gender or tradition.
13. Philippians 2:2
“Then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind.”
Explanation:
Unity, love, and shared spirit are qualities of a healthy relationship — including same-sex unions.
14. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud… It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”
Explanation:
This famous love passage describes love’s essence — and it applies to all couples.
15. Isaiah 56:4-5
“To the eunuchs who keep my Sabbaths… I will give them an everlasting name that will endure forever.”
Explanation:
Eunuchs, who often lived outside traditional gender or sexual norms, are honored by God. Inclusion is a biblical principle.
16. Matthew 19:12
“…some choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven.”
Explanation:
Jesus acknowledged different expressions of gender and sexuality with respect and purpose.
17. Luke 6:31
“Do to others as you would have them do to you.”
Explanation:
Respect and equality in how we treat all relationships, including same-sex ones, reflect Christ’s teaching.
18. James 2:8
“If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself,’ you are doing right.”
Explanation:
Same-sex love that is grounded in care and respect fulfills God’s command.
19. Romans 12:10
“Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.”
Explanation:
Mutual devotion and honor are traits of every God-honoring relationship.
20. Hebrews 10:24
“And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.”
Explanation:
A loving partnership encourages spiritual growth — regardless of gender.
21. Colossians 3:14
“And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”
Explanation:
Love is what holds relationships together. That truth crosses all boundaries.
22. Psalm 133:1
“How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in unity!”
Explanation:
Living in peace and love with others, including in marriage, is blessed by God.
23. John 15:12
“My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.”
Explanation:
Jesus commands love. All love that is pure and faithful echoes His example.
24. 2 Corinthians 13:11
“…encourage one another, be of one mind, live in peace. And the God of love and peace will be with you.”
Explanation:
Peace and unity come from relationships that reflect God’s love — including those between men.
25. Ephesians 4:2
“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.”
Explanation:
This describes the heart of a lasting marriage — patience and gentleness, regardless of gender.
26. Matthew 22:39
“And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”
Explanation:
Jesus’ message is always love — simple, strong, and inclusive.
27. 1 Thessalonians 5:11
“Therefore encourage one another and build each other up…”
Explanation:
A supportive relationship — like between two men — honors this spiritual calling.
28. Galatians 6:2
“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”
Explanation:
In marriage, carrying one another’s burdens is a sign of true love and unity.
29. 1 Peter 4:8
“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.”
Explanation:
Deep love — the foundation of any true marriage — is spiritually powerful.
30. Micah 6:8
“…what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”
Explanation:
Justice, mercy, and humility apply to how we treat all couples, including same-sex ones.
31. Romans 15:7
“Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God.”
Explanation:
Acceptance is divine. Rejecting love goes against Christ’s example.
32. Psalm 36:7
“How priceless is your unfailing love, O God! People take refuge in the shadow of your wings.”
Explanation:
All people, regardless of who they love, find shelter in God’s love.
33. Isaiah 43:4
“Since you are precious and honored in my sight, and because I love you…”
Explanation:
Every person — gay or straight — is loved and honored by God.
34. Zechariah 8:16
“These are the things you are to do: Speak the truth to each other, and render true and sound judgment in your courts.”
Explanation:
Truth and fairness must be central in how we judge others — including same-sex couples.
35. Revelation 21:4
“He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain…”
Explanation:
God promises peace and healing to all who trust in Him, no matter their path in life or love.
Final Thoughts: Love Is at the Heart of Faith
These 35 Bible verses about marriage between man and man show a deeper truth — that love, respect, and faith transcend gender. While the Bible may not directly address every modern context, its core teachings of love, inclusion, and grace are timeless.
If you’re in a same-sex relationship and wondering how it fits into your faith — know that you are not alone. God’s love isn’t limited. It’s infinite, inclusive, and life-giving.
What do you think?
Have a favorite verse that brings you comfort? Share your thoughts or experiences in the comments — your story could inspire someone else today.